A guide to how I deal with everyday issues brought on by my children and those I call family.
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Holiday time is here..
This week has been pretty normal here I guess.. had to buy a new stove, that was $700. Then my car kicked the bucket and had to get that fixed.. that was another $550! Then yesterday, had to call the plumber.. OMG.. almost $300!! Ok, so anything else breaks here.. TOO DAMN BAD
Well, Pimp My Ride is on... catchya laterz
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
JFL...
Drink break now.. then back off to run some more!
Well, guess I'd better watch... he's getting mad!!
Till next time.....
Cody's BIG decission...
Austin will be able to do it here in about 3 years! He will be able to do it and while Cody was unable, he's glad to have made what little bit he did...
Hard lesson to learn but, well worth it in the end.
Till next time....
Monday, July 20, 2009
Why do we have to be so darn busy these days???
Till next time....
Cody's 1st day Detasseling...
Get FREE Smileys today!
Friday, July 10, 2009
Well, it's Friday, what more can I say.
We will also be having a moment of silence for a friend that recently passed away just 1 week before her 33rd bday. (We miss you Paula)
So, hopefully, we'll get some good pics done and have a great time!! Cake, Ice Cream and an Ice Cream cake to celebrate!!!
more to come............
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Small things I've noticed lately...
I look at my kids and ask, "do people really know how lucky they are to have children that are comletely healthy and free of illness and/or disease?" Many parents will never truely know the struggles of a family with even one sick child let alone multiple. From high medical costs to stuggles getting them into school to the everyday living costs that seem to go higher and higher as the days and weeks go on.
One wheelchair co-pay can hit $500 easy, Gait Trainer co-pay can hit $200 easy. Medicine co-pays can be between $10 & $60 and sometimes higher. Drs visits are $25-50 before you look at the cost of gas to get there. Multiple trips to Chicago, St. Louis and talks of heading to Indianapolis means a tank of gas to get there and a tank to get back. With average prices of gas being $2.50 right now in my area, that's damn near $100 for gas just to get her there and back!!!
Fights with drs officies to get scripts sent to where they need to go, fights with the health insurance company to even pay for the stuff she needs, the stresses of knowing she'll never be normal, not like other children in her class. Fights with the schools to make the proper adjustments and reconstruction of areas of the school to get them up to ADA standards is time consuming to say the least.
I have become and advocate for my daughter and encourage others to be the voices of their children as well. I have also become advocates for other children that have no voice and no one to assist with getting them what they need.
Sure, worring about if you're gonna get that new iPod or Wii is great if you have the time and money to worry... But for those of us that have other issues to worry about like where's the moeny going to come from to pay for medical bills we have already or those to come, what about the special meds she needs, how are we gonna pay for the new wheel chair she so desperately needs...
My dear Autumn is now 7 years old, she is free of her feeding tube and 99% of her meds that were "sustaining" her from 1 yr till now. Her only meds are a growth hormone and the occasional tylenol or motrin. We are very happy and thankful for everyday we have with her. Now, that is not saying I am not angry nor jealous of those with healthy children. Because to be honest I am... I am very angry that God made my daughter suffer with an illness that took 6 years to find. I am very jealous that God gave this one a healthy daughter when all I ever wanted was a little girl to call my own. Shopping, hair salon trips.. ya know... the normal stuff moms and daughters do...
I however would not change having Autumn in my life for anything. Not even a healthy Autumn. She is mine.. all mine and I love her to pieces. No matter how bad things seem to be going in our lives, Autumn always seems to make sure we smile at least 10 times a day LOL.
As I sit here and write this, dear Autumn is sitting with her dad eating a bagel and playing Nintendo DS! She is the light of our lives, makes us smile everyday no matter what's going on. She's a happy little girl without a care in the world! She enjoys being with her family and the animals here on the farm. She's a friendly little girl that sees only the good in people. I wish I had that trust, that hope to see the good in things, especially when right now, all is see is greedy, evil, self preserving people.......
Lord, grant me the strength to go on, provide guidance for me so that I may guide others during their struggles in this cruel world. Forgive me for all that I have done or will do in the days to come. Keep my family safe and my friends well. In this your name I pray... AMEN...
Keep family close my friends, love them, respect them, listen to them.. and most of all.. LOVE THEM...
Monday, April 13, 2009
A Changing Day in My Life
After a few moments of self reflection, I realized that while I feel "okay" most days, I do not feel my best, like I did when I was 180 lbs! I have decided to do what needs to be done.. Lose the weight, stop smoking, eat healthier (this is gonna be hard as I LOVE my meat) and exercise more, do what needs to be done.
Be healthier for me, my family and my friends.
Now, I know WHAT needs to be done (end result), I just need to figure out HOW I'm gonna do it.... ???????????
Will post more later
Crystal
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Spring Break is upon us!
I know the kids are looking froward to it.. mom... not so much.
Will update soon
Crystal
Monday, March 9, 2009
It's SPRING!!!
I am not too happy about the kid being sick part but, I suppose it could be worse. Been a pretty busy day and I must admit... I am NOT looking forward to the after noon. We will just have to see what all happens...
Oh, hubby said shed is now back right-side up and is in its place... added some weight until we can get it tied down.
Blog on...
Crystal
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Life as we know it....
- Pee
- Shower
- talk on the phone without someone screaming
- have an adult conversation WITHOUT someone interrupting
- eat in peace
- watch a nice movie without someone saying "MOM, he hit me!"
- Having that "alone" time with your husband and not have someone unlock the door with their fingernail and yelling "What'cha doin'?"
- Enjoy Wal*Mart the way we did BEFORE kids :)
- Wear underware/bras that are cute vs. supportive ;)
- Being able to sleep a full 8 hrs without someone wanting a drink, having to pee, OR blaring the TV
I am sure there is more that I can add to this list but, these are what comes to mind RIGHT now...
On that note, I am off to bed.. Hoping to get a good nights rest. Maybe everyone will sleep the whole night (yeah, right LOL)
Crystal
Friday, February 6, 2009
So, what's for dinner?
Here's what's on the Menu for the weekend....
Feb 6, 09
SUPPER: Bacon Cheeseburgers, Smiley Face Taters (McCain)
Feb 7, 09
BREAKFAST: Extra Fluffy Pancakes, Syrup, Potatoes O'Brien with Scrammbled Eggs and Sausage.
LUNCH: Veggie Beef Soupe, Rice, Grilled Turkey `N` Swiss Sandwich
SUPPER: Shake ~N~ Bake Chicken, Mashed Taters, Gravy, Corn
Feb 8, 09
BREAKFAST: French Toast, Syrup, Sausage, Eggs
LUNCH: Spaghetti, Meatballs, Garlic Bread
SUPPER: Leftovers from Sat/Sun big meals (YUMMY)
Looks like a nice weekend for cooking. It's supposed to be in the upper 40's lower 50's. YAY!!!
So, happy cooking everyone
YAY! Pancakes YUMMY
Crystal
Mama to Cody, Austin & Autumn
Wife to Brian
Thursday, February 5, 2009
New Fid is here!!
He was born July 5, 2008. Purchased from IlliniParrots in Champaign, IL. He is very good tempered. He is already speaking!! Says, "Good Boy", "Bus" and "Shhhh"
Above, is Sugar and Skye. They are getting along great!!! Both speak quite well, Skye's vocab is much more advanced but he has been here for a few months. I love my FIDS
Crystal
It's Thursday in IL
It's been a long week and there's still a couple days left. With a sick kid, haven't gotten much else done. Dishes are in the sink, floors need swept and mopped... cages need cleaned.. UGH... With Strep in the house, everything must be disinfected, sterilized and dried. That in itself will be a chore. So my list for the day is as follows...
- Sweep/Mop floors (LR, Kit, Hallway)
- Clean guinea pigs cage
- Clean Hedgehogs cage
- Clean bird cages
- Wash dishes
- Do laundry (wash, dry, fold)
- Do animal dishes (wash, sterilize, dry)
- Figure out what's for Supper
- Give baby bath
I think that's about it for now LOL... seems like the list grows daily but, with everyone in and out, kids sick, mom tired, dad cranky, days go by fast and things seem to take forever to get done.
So, with that said, I must go, gotta get the baby her medicine and breakfast.
Happy Mothering (I need coffee!)
Friday, January 30, 2009
Check this out!
Other than that, not really much to tell...
WindDancer